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Rachel Wildavsky's avatar

So well put. I love the metaphor of the elephant.

I'm so sorry for your pain, and hope you find healing.

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scott brown's avatar

Opening the door of self awareness yet a little bit more and encouraging an open mind! Shifting how we observe our experiences and allowing us to be curious rather than hopeless. That’s where this post took me. Thanks !

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Jason MacKenzie's avatar

You're so welcome brother. I really appreciate how encouraging you are!!

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Joe Nichols's avatar

I'm a new subscriber, and this is the first piece I've read from you so I don't 'know' you yet. Your "rider and elephant" analogy really hit home though, showing how grief upends our sense of control. Thank you for sharing such raw, honest insight. It truly resonates

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Jason MacKenzie's avatar

Hey Joe - I'm so glad you subscribed and that you found the post helpful.

I first read the analogy a while before the mentor I mentioned explained it to me and I literally could not understand it. I could not wrap my head around the fact that I was supposed to believe I couldn't logic my way through everything.

Then, when he shared it with me again, I was ready to finally accept it. It really has been a powerful way of reminding myself how to be present when my emotions feel like they're spinning out of control.

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